SINGAPORE – The couple caught verbally abusing and shoving an elderly man at a Toa Payoh hawker centre in a viral video said they believe they have been “punished by society” over the past four months.
Mr Chow Chuin Yee, 45 and Ms Tay Puay Leng, 38, were fined in court on Friday (Aug 11) for the use of criminal force and harassment on Mr Ng Ai Hua, 76, in April.
Ms Tay was fined $1,200 for using abusive words on the retiree, causing alarm, while Mr Chow was fined $1,500 for using criminal force.
Asked about comments from netizens that they had got off lightly with a fine, Mr Chow told The Sunday Times on Saturday (Aug 12) that they have been “living like fugitives” to prevent any further public incidents after facing backlash both online and in public.
Ms Tay, a tutor at the same centre, said she sought psychiatric help sometime in June, after she experienced anxiety being in public. She is currently still on medication.
Mr Chow, a director at Novel Learning Centre, which provides tuition services, recounted an incident that took place six weeks after the video went viral.
“I took her out to have a meal at a hawker centre. But someone recognised us, and started to film us, drawing a lot of attention for other people to look at us,” said Mr Chow. “We were just queuing up for a meal; it’s scary.”
Mr Chow said they have been intimidated too. “One time this guy purposely stepped backward while queuing up for food, and stepped on my toes hoping I would pick a fight,” said Mr Chow.
Mr Chow and Ms Tay were thrust into the spotlight after a video captured by a member of the public showing the couple in a dispute with Mr Ng at at the hawker centre in Lorong 8 Toa Payoh went viral.
Ms Tay was first seen arguing with Mg Ng, after the retiree approached the table for five carrying his dinner and sought to share the table.
Mr Chow, who arrived at the scene after Ms Tay called him, bumped forcefully into 76-year-old Mr Ng’s back, causing him to stumble forward.
Ms Tay said she was not thinking straight and continues to regret her rash actions.
“We rushed to the hawker centre after my classes, as I just needed a quick meal before going home to take care of my grandmother,” she said.
She said she had been taking care of her 89-year old grandmother, who suffers from dementia, for the past 10 years. “At that time she was just discharged from hospital after being warded for about a week and not very stable. In fact we were asleep when the video went viral because I was back at the A&E with my grandmother .”
The incident put the spotlight on ‘choping’ culture and civil behaviour. The role of social media also figured prominently in the case, especially when another woman was wrongly identified as Tay, leading to online witch-hunts against a different woman.
Acknowledging that their actions were “shameful, selfish and appalling”, the couple sought to make amends to Mr Ng.
Both of them wrote a page-long letter each to Mr Ng, dated April 26 – five days after the incident on Apr 21 – where they apologised to him and asked for a chance to do so as well in personand passed the notes to the investigating officer.
Mr Ng and his daughter, who had posted on Facebook recounting the incident, did not reply to queries from The Sunday Times. His daughter, Caroline, wrote in a post in April: “The only reason we decided to step forward…is to bring public awareness of such act should never be tolerated, to serve as a voice for those who are victimised by similar situations, and to prevent such things from happening again.”
The couple would like the chance to apologise to Mr Ng in person if possible.
Ms Tay also said: “I’ve offered to volunteer at the eldercare centre that my grandmother used to go.”
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